First, since when does the interested guy decide, “ mmmmm, I’m going to go after that girl, not for her smile but because she looks like she could really use my help? Second, isn’t needing and feeling needed burdensome? It implies there are expectations and rules and if they are not met, the person is dismissed. AAAHHHHH! A few things come to mind whenever I hear that line. If I got a dime for every man, woman and child who told me, “ Linda, the problem is you come across as if you don’t need a man” or some variation of that sentiment, I would be a newly minted millionaire. I’ve enjoyed the conversations, the similarities of our likes and dislikes, and our common faith but at the end of the day, I desire to WANT you. This is not a criticism but an observation of my situation. MEĪs I was taking a Vegan Enchilada dish out of the oven, I heard my dear Seester exclaim, “I have to hurry up and marry you off.” As the chuckles subsided, I ran through my rolodex of recent dating experiences and dare I say it…I came up dry! Not one man rises to the level of potential prospect for marriage material. They rarely desire to want and be wanted. For many women (and shall I say it…men too) they want to desire and be desired.
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